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Sexual empowerment and recovery after religious trauma
Ashley S.
Available today
Self-discovery
Religious trauma
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I grew up being taught that I should be abstinent until marriage and if I don't I would get an std, HIV/AIDS, or get pregnant. Best case scenario, my life would be over or Worst case scenario, you know, worse would happen. The only thing I was taught about when you are allowed to have sex was that a woman had the obligation to please her man. I didn't just hear those messages from religious environments but the media too. It made me feel deep shame about who I was growing to be. Ashamed about every part of who I was. At a young age, I really felt in my spirit that abstinence until marriage was not for me. It just didn't make sense to me, but that doesn't mean that the shame, blame, oppression, voicelessness, and fear that came from those teachings didn't stay. I still believe in God, but I also believe that God doesn't need me to be oppressed & oblivious to love me. So I decided that I wanted to embrace & discover who I was as a sexual being outside of the desires of a sexual partner.
The aftermath of religious trauma
Amber L.
Family tension
Depression
I offer understanding and support for those healing from religious trauma. Growing up, I was physically forced to attend church, and if I refused, I was disciplined harshly. Those experiences taught me how damaging it can be when faith is used to control rather than uplift. Later in life, I was also targeted and judged by a religious person simply for being bisexual. These experiences have given me a deep empathy for others who’ve been shamed, silenced, or hurt under the guise of religion. I create a safe, judgment-free space where people can process their pain, reclaim their voice, and begin to heal at their own pace.
Finding peace and contentment through God
Mason I.
Overcoming substance dependency
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I’ve been through a lot in my life—substance use, legal troubles, and homelessness—before experiencing a full recovery and spiritual awakening. My journey taught me the value of self-reflection, the importance of healthy relationships, and the power of faith. After years of working in addiction treatment, I’ve learned how crucial it is to understand attachment styles, healthy communication, and self-love. For years, I struggled in toxic relationships, but in my early 30s, I began learning about codependency and attachment styles, which has transformed the way I relate to others. My close relationship with God has been central to my healing, and I believe that the love I receive from Him forms the foundation for building healthy, fulfilling relationships. I truly believe that healing and growth are possible for everyone, no matter their past. I’m here to share my experiences, tools, and encouragement to help others walk their own path to recovery and healthy relationships.
Religion, faith, religious experience and spiritual warfare
Keaira W.
Spiritual exploration
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For years, I moved through faith spaces feeling both seen and silenced - adopted by doctrine but disconnected from my own spirit . My spiritual awakening wasn't gentle, it was a rupture. What followed was a reclamation of voice , boundaries and divine connection. Now, I hold space for others navigating spiritual warfare, religious experiences and the quiet ache of disembodiment. This offering is for those ready to re-enter their sacredness on their own terms.
Finding yourself after leaving a controlling religious group
Elizabeth M.
Shame and guilt
I grew up in a religious group that controlled every part of my life, even down to how I thought and felt. It wasn’t just spiritual, there was abuse, betrayal, and deep wounds that shaped my sense of self. Leaving that community meant losing my family, friends, and the only life I had ever known. For years, I struggled with isolation, PTSD, and questioning everything I believed in. Through therapy, art therapy, journaling, and connecting with others who had walked similar paths, I began slowly rebuilding who I was outside of those walls. It took time to trust myself again, but today, I live freely, grounded in my own values and dreams. I now support others who are stepping away from controlling environments, helping them navigate grief, find their voice, and believe that life after leaving can be beautiful.
Finding strength, hope and healing throughout your trauma recovery journey
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Recovering from trauma is not about “getting over it.” It’s about learning to live, breathe, and grow in ways that honor what you’ve been through while creating space for who you’re becoming. Through my own lived experience, I know trauma recovery can feel lonely, confusing, and exhausting. Healing isn’t linear—it comes with setbacks, small victories, and the courage to keep showing up for yourself. In our time together, I offer: A compassionate, nonjudgmental space to share what you’re carrying Understanding from someone who knows what it’s like to live through and beyond trauma Gentle reminders that your healing pace is valid and enough Support in finding strength, resilience, and hope while honoring your story You don’t have to walk through recovery alone. I’ll sit with you in the hard moments, celebrate the small wins, and remind you that healing—while not always easy—is always possible. 💫
Shedding survival patterns and reclaiming your true self
Karina S.
Navigating mental health challenges
I'm taking a leap and putting myself out there , encouraged by close friends and family members that have believed in the advice and support I’ve provided with my heart throughout the years. I’ve lived my life building systems to survive in a world where it felt like my sensitivity didn’t fit. I’m still learning about myself, and relationships, and what the “right” path you’re supposed to follow is that means you’ve figured everything out. Along the way, I’ve connected more deeply with my authentic self, stepped forward in cultivating mutual and fulfilling relationships, and found purpose in simply being present. I believe staying curious about your inner world and that around you, building up your capacity to feel and perceive deeply, and connecting to inner and spiritual wisdom is the foundation for anything you want to accomplish.
Looking for meaning and fulfillment
I've been down a long path of self- and spiritual discovery, becoming acquainted with Western, Eastern, and indigenous religous traditions. In the process, I've learned to cultivate and receive inner wisdom as an individual, and I would be honored to support anyone who is spiritually seeking.
Your spiritual gifts, such as being psychic, intuitive, or empathic
Coach Ivy L.
Deconstruction
For the intuitives, empaths, and psychics- who see more, feel more, and know more than they can easily explain. I’ve been that child who was terrified of the things no one else could see — the “ghosts” everyone said weren’t real. I wasn’t comforted; I was dismissed. I get it. As I grew up, rejection remained. Church made me feel ashamed and family rejected me for exploring anything outside of the church's beliefs. It was exhausting trying to explain things to those who didn't want to understand. But then I stopped apologizing for the gifts God gave me. I’ve learned to love every gift I carry — my intuition, my sensitivity, my connection. I became a Holistic Depth Coach- using my intuitive insight to help others heal, grow, and live freely without shame. If you’ve ever questioned your gift, your faith, or your sanity trying to reconcile all three — you’re safe here. You’re not alone. And you don’t have to choose between being spiritual and being understood.
Spirituality and faith
Elizabeth J.
Reconnecting with faith
If you are curious or searching to know that there is more to life, or in transition with your faith, I provide emotional safety to help you find more clarity. It can be exhausting trying to explain things to those who do not want to grow, share knowledge or do want to understand others. My sensitivity and empathy is a gift and - I'm Here For You.
Making hard relationship decisions with clarity and peace
Sami C.
Rebuilding trust
Loss of trust
I’ve made some of the hardest relationship decisions a woman can face—walking away from a long-term marriage after betrayal, and later ending a short-lived second marriage that I knew in my gut wasn’t right even before the wedding. In both cases, I battled feelings of guilt, fear, and confusion—especially as a woman of faith trying to do “the right thing.” I understand how isolating it feels when you’re stuck between what looks good on paper and what your soul is whispering. Whether you’re questioning a relationship, recovering from one, or just trying to hear your own voice again, I can help you find clarity and peace.
Dating again after divorce—especially when you're still healing
Breaking toxic relationship patterns
I was married for 20 years, but for at least half of that time, my partner was having same-sex affairs. We tried counseling, fought for our family, but in the end, I had to face the truth of continued betrayal. After the divorce, I waited a year before dating again, thinking I had done the “healing work.” But when I finally joined the dating apps, I met someone quickly and married him just 11 months later after a mostly long-distance relationship. I told myself I was setting a good Christian example for my kids, even though I knew in my gut I shouldn’t say yes. That short-term marriage ended after experiencing emotional and sexual abuse. It took my counselor looking me in the eye and saying, “He’s not going to change” for me to walk away. The process left me emotionally and spiritually bruised—but it also taught me how to trust myself again, rebuild my confidence, and approach dating with more discernment and grace. What I learned from both marriages is this: healing isn’t linear, and dating while grieving is complicated. Now, I help women learn to trust themselves again, navigate dating with honesty, and avoid repeating the same patterns. You’re not too much, too late, or too broken. There is hope—and there is healing. If you’re trying to figure out how to date after divorce without repeating the same patterns, I’d love to help.
Spirituality and spiritual awakenings
Shaera H.
Available tomorrow
My first awakening came at 23, when everything in my life suddenly simplified into one undeniable truth: love is what matters most. Not success, not perfection, not external validation: just love. Many near-death experiencers describe this same realization, that love is the core of everything: and I felt that truth awaken in me so clearly that it changed how I saw life, people, and purpose. Years later, in my 40s, a second awakening arrived: quieter at first, then powerful and expansive. Through deep meditation and the Gateway Experience, my inner world opened. My intuition sharpened, my awareness deepened, and abilities I never expected: psychic sensitivity, mediumship, subtle perception began to unfold naturally. Whether you're feeling expanded, confused, curious, or in transition, I help you make sense of what’s unfolding, stay rooted, and integrate your insights with clarity and emotional safety.
Exploring your questions with tarot and psychic guidance
Self-assessment
Experimenting with new roles
I’m an experienced intuitive reader and evidential medium, offering heartfelt guidance and clear, accurate messages from Spirit. My readings have received excellent reviews for their accuracy, depth, and emotional resonance. I read on Oranum for intuitive insights and offer evidential mediumship sessions on VerySoul, where I bring through detailed evidence and meaningful messages from loved ones in Spirit. I also have clairvoyance, clairsentience, clairaudience, & claircognizance: expressive, intuitive psychic gifts that capture the essence of spiritual experiences and messages. My work blends intuition, empathy, and spiritual attunement to create a space of clarity, connection, and trust. We can discuss your concerns, consult tarot, & I can provide wisdom & guidance.
Living with AuDHD and healing through Buddhism
Ren C.
Spiritual or religious exploration
Living with both autism and ADHD (AuDHD) often made the world feel overwhelming: too loud, too fast, too confusing. Emotions would hit me like waves I couldn’t predict or control. When I lost my father and grandmother, the grief collided with that chaos and left me feeling completely untethered. For a while, I didn’t know how to find my way back to myself. But turning to Buddhism gave me a foundation to heal. Through mindfulness, compassion, and the practice of being present without judgment, I started to find peace in places I never thought possible. Buddhism helped me understand my emotions, my energy, and my worth outside of what the world expected from me. Now, I walk with both grief and joy, and I’m passionate about helping others who are navigating life with AuDHD and searching for emotional grounding, self-trust, and real healing.
ADHD
Healing from narcissistic abuse and reclaiming your power
Iyansa T.
Emotional abuse
I spent six years off and on in an abusive relationship with a narcissistic partner. Over time, my self-esteem was completely beaten down, and I started to believe I couldn't live without him. My sense of self was shattered, and I didn’t even recognize the damage being done until it was too late. But through prayer and deep introspection, I began to see myself the way God sees me — with love, worth, and potential. The journey wasn’t easy, but it led me to spiritual healing and self-empowerment. I realized I wasn’t just healing from one toxic relationship, but from patterns I’d allowed in other areas of my life — including friendships and family dynamics. Today, I’m a spiritual life coach, and I’m passionate about helping others break free from the cycle of narcissistic abuse. I can guide you through healing and help you transform your pain into power. If you’re struggling with self-doubt and can’t see the way out, I’m here to help you find your strength and reconnect with your divine self.
Seeking faith in God after church hurt or falling away from Christianity
Emlyn C.
I grew up in the Christian faith and attended private school for the majority of my K-12 education. My family experienced "drama" and what can only be described as very poor treatment and behavior at the hands of other self-professed Christians at both churches and schools throughout my formative years. Even accounting for typical teenage rebellion, I felt "done" with my faith as an adult and frustrated at the lack of support I felt from those who should have been spiritual guideposts in my life. I was jaded, angry, and rebellious in my spirit. All of that changed over the course of difficult life circumstances that I almost certainly would not have survived outside of God's grace. On my journey to grow in my faith again, I am eager to share my experiences with others who want that spark for Jesus back, but may be struggling with hurt or feelings of unworthiness. It would be my honor to reiterate to you that you ARE worthy, and finding faith again is possible for anyone.
Healing after trauma and rebuilding your life
Cayla W.
Motherhood identity shift
For years I lived in survival mode navigating abuse, religious trauma, addiction, financial collapse, chronic illness, and the challenges of raising three children alone, including one who is autistic and nonverbal. My own healing journey taught me how to rebuild from the ground up, create stability in chaos, and reconnect with who I really am. Becoming a certified life coach and energy healing practitioner allowed me to turn that lived experience into guidance that truly helps others. Whether someone is healing from trauma, parenting through overwhelm, facing burnout, or searching for a sense of meaning, I meet them exactly where they are and walk beside them as they take their next step. I know the courage it takes to start over, and I’m here to make sure no one has to do it alone.
Finding spiritually after religious trauma especially within the LGBTQ+ community
Ryan B.
Coming out
Faith and identity
Growing up Catholic while knowing I was gay was deeply challenging. The beliefs I was taught didn’t always make space for who I was, and it took years to unlearn those limits and reclaim my sense of self. A spiritual awakening in my teens led me to step away from that faith and begin discovering who I truly am. They say life begins when you stop trying to please the audience, and for me that couldn’t be more true. I’ve learned to balance what feels right for me while living in a world that requires understanding and compromise. The key has been finding peace and harmony right where I am. I no longer need to fix, manage, or control everything. I’ve found spirituality through a higher power that brings me comfort and connection. Let’s explore what spirituality can mean for you and uncover a deep sense of peace and oneness you may not have known was possible.