I was married at 17, in part due to an unplanned pregnancy, but that in no way lessens the legitimacy of our commitment. We are still married over 36 years later, with 3 grown, independent, successful, college-educated children. We are extremely committed to our relationship and very comfortable in that commitment. We both maintain a high level of respect, reverence, and admiration for each other in addition to the love and attraction we have shared since our teenage years. We've experienced a great deal of strife, from loss of jobs and income to chronic illness, illness. Even the death of parents and family, along with handling the full range of emotions in raising children. We have moved states away from anyone we knew, successfully reintegrating our kids into a new school system, eventually assisting them into college. I've navigated a relationship through thick and thin, learning to turn into our marriage rather than away to solidify our bond into the tempered steel strength it is today.

I was in a long relationship over 10 years where I put myself in the background of my own relationship. I had to endure alot of heartbreak due to infidelity and double standards. Until one day everything was starting to feel real distance between us and she broke up with me over the phone. I was devastated and heartbroken. The first few weeks I couldn't eat, sleep or think straight. I kept looking at her social media which was unhealthy. For 6 months I was clinging on the hope of us getting back together. After no luck I began to finally find peace within myself with my sister giving me support and encouragement. I started to pick up the pieces and even dating again finding my voice and my happiness.

Sometimes it’s hard to find the right words—or any words at all—for what you’re feeling. Expression doesn’t always have to look like talking; it can be writing, drawing, moving your body, or even creating small rituals that help you release what’s inside. I know how freeing it can feel to discover a new outlet, one that feels natural and true to you. Over time, I’ve learned that expression isn’t about being “good” at something—it’s about giving yourself permission to be real, messy, and honest. Now, I offer space for others who want to explore different ways of expressing themselves, whether that’s through creativity, conversation, or simply finding language for feelings that have been hard to name.

I have had to learn to navigate different relationships throughout the years, including familial, work, friend and romantic relationships. Through my experience, along with my training as a life coach with a concentration in relationships, I have come to find that there are a number of aspects that contribute to the health and wellbeing of a relationship. I am here to assist with those aspects, including setting and upholding boundaries, healthy communication, showing care, expressing your desires for care and love, dealing with conflict in relationships, and even breakups. Whatever the case may be, I'm here to help and support you in navigating your relationships.

I met Edi at his restaurant in Tirana, Albania — not on an app, just real life. He served my meal at an expat brunch that I was hosting (for which I was then overcharged, lol). When he realized it, he apologized, we sat down, and we ended up talking for eight hours over wine and (more) delicious food. About 6 hours in he asked if I wanted to drive to Montenegro with him the next day, and I said yes. Two days later we’d been to Montenegro, Macedonia, and Kosovo - and that was the start of “us.” Two years later, we’re doing great, while still learning each other’s worlds. Dating across cultures is beautiful and also challenging: why does he rarely apologize? Why do his friends think I say thank you too much? Why does my enjoyment of PDA make him uncomfortable? It’s a dance between Texas warmth and Albanian reserve - with laughter, love, and a lot of patience along the way. I can walk with you as you explore cross-cultural relationships and the joy (and chaos) of blending two worlds.

Throughout my life, I’ve experienced deeply loving romantic relationships that, while wonderful, just weren’t the right fit for me. Each experience taught me valuable lessons about love, self-awareness, and, most importantly, communication. In my current relationship, things didn’t start off smoothly—there was a miscommunication about what we each wanted, which led to a big blow-up and a breakup. However, we found our way back to each other and worked hard to improve our communication, increase transparency, and make sure we were on the same page. Through this journey, I’ve learned what works, what doesn’t, and how to create stronger, healthier relationships. Now, I’m studying to become a certified interpersonal relationship coach so I can help others navigate their own challenges in love and connection, helping them build meaningful, lasting relationships.

For a long time I thought that marriage meant what I saw on TV or what I heard everyone talk about. The truth is traditional marriage almost ruined me.I realized that marriage doesn’t have to fit a box it just has to fit you. I’m married to a woman, and while we don’t live together, we live next door. We raise our children, support each other’s dreams, and create a family that’s built on respect, communication, and choice , not tradition or perfection. Our home is proof that love can look different and still be whole. We have regular check-ins, honest conversations, and continue to date each other even after years together. Intimacy for us means connection, not just sex. We make mistakes, we compromise, we grow. I help others find peace and partnership in relationships that are real not performative.

After 4.5 years of IVF challenges, my wife and I were overjoyed to finally become parents to twin boys. I spent the first three years of their lives as a stay-at-home dad, fully immersed in raising them and supporting my wife, who is a clinical psychologist. Parenthood changed everything, and navigating the transition meant learning how to truly communicate—not just about parenting but about how we were growing individually and as a couple. Our marriage of 22+ years has been full of ups and downs, and I’ve learned that resolving conflict isn’t about winning; it’s about listening, understanding, and being open to each other’s truths. Through heartbreaks, professional challenges, and the daily work of family life, we’ve stayed connected by focusing on empathy and teamwork. I believe that even the most difficult conversations can strengthen a relationship when approached with care and honesty. If you’re looking for someone who understands the layers of maintaining a strong partnership through change, I’m here to listen and support you.

After 4.5 years of IVF challenges, my wife and I were overjoyed to finally become parents to twin boys. I spent the first three years of their lives as a stay-at-home dad, fully immersed in raising them and supporting my wife, who is a clinical psychologist. Parenthood changed everything, and navigating the transition meant learning how to truly communicate—not just about parenting but about how we were growing individually and as a couple. Our marriage of 22+ years has been full of ups and downs, and I’ve learned that resolving conflict isn’t about winning; it’s about listening, understanding, and being open to each other’s truths. Through heartbreaks, professional challenges, and the daily work of family life, we’ve stayed connected by focusing on empathy and teamwork. I believe that even the most difficult conversations can strengthen a relationship when approached with care and honesty. If you’re looking for someone who understands the layers of maintaining a strong partnership through change, I’m here to listen and support you.