For a long time I thought that marriage meant what I saw on TV or what I heard everyone talk about. The truth is traditional marriage almost ruined me.I realized that marriage doesn’t have to fit a box it just has to fit you. I’m married to a woman, and while we don’t live together, we live next door. We raise our children, support each other’s dreams, and create a family that’s built on respect, communication, and choice , not tradition or perfection. Our home is proof that love can look different and still be whole. We have regular check-ins, honest conversations, and continue to date each other even after years together. Intimacy for us means connection, not just sex. We make mistakes, we compromise, we grow. I help others find peace and partnership in relationships that are real not performative.