As a highly sensitive and emotionally deep child, I developed an anxious attachment style in a busy household with overwhelmed parents. I craved deep connection, and often felt isolated and on my own. As a teen and adult, I struggled with feeling clingy, overly sensitive, and nervous in friendships and especially romantic relationships. I alternated between pulling people close, and pushing them away when I felt hurt. Eventually, I got to the root of my attachment trauma, and I learned how to caretake that pain. I became capable of managing my emotions and behaviors in relationships, and can now bring my adult wisdom to challenging or hurtful situations.