It has been quite a journey coming into a position of security and safety within myself as a Pansexual, predominantly masculine presenting, fluid queer person. There was a lot of self exploration, challenging against expectations and projections and non-conscious learning from the conditioning exposed to me growing up and constantly in the media. Relationships also played a role, with others and their expectations of me; and also with myself and what my connections to others reflected to me about myself as a result of how I made them feel or they made me feel. Here, we can slow down to be with all that may be playing more of a part of how we exist within spaces while growing and progressing in our masculine of center beings. Here, we do not need to be invisible, we can be curious and expressive and deconstruct what no longer aligns or serves us in our lives and within the connections we foster. And the best part, we no longer have to do that alone.