I've been practicing Ethical Non Monogomy ( ENM), also known as Polyamory for almost 10 years now. It is not easy navigating complex relationship dynamics which include practicing honesty, exploring jealousy, transparency, and conscious consent and consideration of others all the while maintaining a healthy well being for your own wants needs and life values. It is a lot of unlearning and deconstructing of non-conscious conditioning we are seemingly by default introduced to at no choice of our own. To pave your own path with such intentionality in your connections- exploring relationships like DNA; honoring that no two connections are the same and there is no "One size fits all" or "Only one to suit the position" is a road that is okay to not be for everyone, all the time, and is worthy of being able to explore safely among open minded community that cares to hold non judgmental space and invite opportunities to explore understanding oneself more lovingly and curiously along the way.