I didn't initially consider my relationship to be an abusive one. I was with my ex-fiance for over five years before making the decision to walk away despite a shared home, pets, finances, and friendships. While we had a great relationship for many years, slight behavior shifts started to give me pause. I didn't trust my gut and overlooked hurtful behaviors. The silent treatment, cold shoulder, and emotional indifference grew into lying, gaslighting, emotional abuse, financial manipulation, and more. If you love your partner but question how you're being treated, I would be honored to walk with you through identifying abusive behaviors in your relationship and understanding the difference between cooperatively working through issues with your partner, and when it's time to move on.