I was married to a narcissist for 28 years, and for a long time, I constantly questioned myself. Narcissists are skilled at making you feel like everything is your fault. I doubted my own reality and slowly lost my self-confidence. At first, he was incredibly charming, full of compliments and affection. It felt amazing. But once he had my trust, things changed. His needs always came first, he dismissed my boundaries, and he never truly apologized—only reversed the blame. It took me years to recognize these patterns and understand that what I was experiencing wasn’t love. Now, I help others see the red flags before they get pulled in too deep. If you’re confused about your relationship or feel like you're constantly second-guessing yourself, I’m here to help.