My ex and I divorced in 2020. We currently have two sons who are ages 11 and 13. We have inconsistent parenting styles with him being more harsh and me being more of a gentle parent. We have dealt with custody issues this past year and I've had full custody all year. Ive dealt with him not paying child support while I was unemployed due to a work accident. I've had to do whatever I can to protect my children's peace in all of our co-parenting disagreements. It's not easy but it's possible.