I’m a 37-year-old lesbian with a passport stamped by life’s toughest lessons. I done walked through fire more times than I can count, but somehow I still find my smile — even if it show up fashionably late. I’ve dealt with loss every year since I was 12, most recently my father. I’ve survived two divorces and I’m pushing through a third, with two of those partners being full-blown narcissists. I’m also an Army vet, the youngest of five, and still unfolding, still learning, still growing. God ain’t done with me, and I ain’t done with myself. If you need someone who understands pain, resilience, and how to laugh through the storm, I’m here. My experience is real, my heart is open, and my goal is simple — help you keep going, even when life gets loud.