I am a married father with a 3-year-old boy and a girl on the way. I have several girlfriends, all of whom underwent major serious changes after we broke up that I haven't exactly discerned why yet, but have been fascinating nonetheless. I was kidnapped by my father when I was still in single digits, and I was held at gunpoint by a gas station mugger in college. I was very nearly decapitated by a snow plow going to college one morning, and very nearly slammed headlong into a gas station pump which would have almost certainly exploded and killed everyone in radius. I took mushrooms a couple of years ago and had a close personal conversation with God in a way that I'm certain only I could fully comprehend. My father lives only about an hour and a half away from me, yet I can't bring myself to go visit him even though he is rounding the corner to 60 years old. I don't know who would want to talk about similar situations that they have been in or have experienced, but I would love to help.