Growing up in an extremely religious household gave me a lot of preconceived notions surrounding the winter holiday season. My memories of childhood holidays are a mixed grab bag consisting of some of my favorite and some of my hardest moments. As a single parent who has experienced a history of struggling to make ends meet, I have had to figure out how to provide an adequate experience for my children during this season. Through conscious attention on reducing shame and learning to focus on building community, I have managed to transform this season for myself from one of avoidance to one of celebration. Whatever struggle you face during this holiday season, know that you are not alone. I would be honored to listen, hold space and support you through this time.