Back in September 2024, I received a phone call that my mother had been found my local police sitting in her seemingly confused about how she got there and uncertain how to get home. I flew to Ohio the next day. I discovered that my mother had let the cleanliness and clutter of her home get out of control, that she had not been taking her medication, and that her financial life was getting out hand as she was not being diligent with paying her bills. For the next three weeks, I organized her home, finances, and health visits. I also noticed that she was not sleeping during the night and was suffering from bouts of disorientation. Now, over a year later, my mother, still insists on living on her own. I am respectful of this, but also have stepped up to ensure that her bills are paid, doctors' visits are happening, and that her home stays in good shape. It 's a demanding situation to "parent" a parent, but also one that has made us better at communication with each other.