Because no one told you it would be this hard. You thought it would get easier but somehow, it feels harder. You want meaningful, mutual friendships. But between work, life, and trust issues, it’s complicated. Maybe you’ve moved cities, left a toxic community, or simply outgrown the people you used to feel close to. Now you’re wondering: How do I even start over? I get it. I've been there and felt everything you are feeling. I know what it’s like to crave connection but not want to settle for surface-level people or performative friendships. Let’s talk about what’s in the way and how to build the kind of connections your soul actually needs.