I came out in 2012. There weren't many resources at my disposal and I often wished someone could walk me through the process of exploration, or just listen to me figuring it out. Instead, I navigated a lot of it on my own. Finding myself took a lot of trial and error. There's so much to learn, but not enough research. Soon, others began asking me to guide them. I have always been happy to take on that role in such a vibrant community. Questioning leads to discovery, healing, strength, and community.