When my kids shared that they are non-binary, I felt a mix of love, curiosity, and a deep responsibility to show up for them in the ways they truly needed. I hadn’t been raised with language or models for this kind of parenting, so I had to learn alongside them—often stumbling, but always committed. I realized early on that my job wasn’t to fix or mold them, but to make space for who they already were. That meant doing my own internal work—unpicking old beliefs and fears I didn’t want to pass on. I asked hard questions, challenged the parenting patterns I inherited, and tuned into what safety and celebration could look like for them, not just me. Over time, I found language and rituals that honored their identity and gave them room to evolve. Friends started coming to me for guidance—asking how to respond when their child experimented with pronouns or expressed gender differently. I’ve supported parents as they move from fear or confusion to love-in-action. It's not about having all the answers—it's about listening, learning, and showing your kid they are already enough. I’d be honored to walk with you through that journey.