Most people assume that all asexuals are the same (all of them hate sex and never want anything to do with it), and the same is true for aromantics. However, for many of us, that's not the full story. For me, realizing I was aroace is what actually gave me the freedom to explore sexuality, pursue different kinds of relationships, and enjoy certain activities for the first time in my life. Learning about how I do or don't feel attraction has allowed me to view all my relationships- platonic and otherwise- in a much more liberating light. I can now find people like me and communicate my desires well, and I now have a lot more confidence in my ability to make and keep friends, partners, and other social connections. If you're on either spectrum and have trouble figuring out what you really want in your relationships with other people, I'm here to listen and help you pursue the kind of intimacy and relationships that make you and your partner(s) happy.